Do you know what I mean? What we lose in translation


Have you ever noticed that some polyglots love to tell you about the words that exist in their language for concepts that don’t exist in yours?
 
A woman I knew whose parents were Dutch never got sick of telling us that there was no way we could ever fully understand what gezellig meant, and that English was a very much poorer language for having no equivalent to this most exquisite concept. I’m going to go out on a limb and say ‘cozy’ pretty much covers it. Sorry, Briona. 
 
Loan words from one language to another often indicate this phenomenon - is there an English word to cover the concept of a doppelganger, for example? I mean sure we have lookalike, but it hardly has the same sinister undertone. Makes you wonder whether doppelgängigkeit was a particular problem at some time in the German-speaking world, that they needed to give it a name.
 
I got thinking about all of this while reading about a study that looked at emotion words across nearly 2,500 (!) languages*. The researchers showed that the way we understand such fundamental concepts as ‘love’ or ‘anger’ differs depending on our native language. 
 
Surprise!
 
Take surprise for example. Speakers of Austronesian languages such as Hawaiian, closely align the feelings of surprise and fear. If you, on the other hand, speak a Tai-Kadai language from South-East Asia or Northern India, you’ll tend not have this negative association with fear but to experience surprise as a neighbouring concept to hope or want.
 
Closer to (my) home, the article quotes Maja Konkolewska, a Polish/English translator and interpreter who believes the emotions we feel are connected to the experiences of our ancestors. “I always struggle to translate the word vulnerable to Polish because there is no direct equivalent,” she says. “When I listen to my grandmother’s stories about her childhood during the second world war, I wonder whether there was no space for vulnerability in Polish history.”

Or indeed, how the Dutch have laboured on so long without a proper word for cozy.

Not so surprising
 
Honestly, the lack of direct fit between different languages’ expressions for basic concepts shouldn’t come as too much of a surprise. So often whether we’re talking, writing or texting between native speakers of the same language, meaning fails to be conveyed.

An acquaintance of mine frequently refers to my violin as a banjo – I suspect this might be supposed to be humorous, or perhaps a coping mechanism to disguise a failing memory. But I’m not a very good violinist, and calling my hobby by the wrong name can feel calculated to belittle my abilities or my passion. Especially because the banjo is such a (wrongly) sneered at instrument.

Another friend recently asked me what new instrument I’m ‘playing around with’ at the moment, which again seemed to trivialise my endeavours on the mute cornett. Now, the fact is that in English we do play an instrument – same as all the other European language families** and likely further afield. That’s a fairly objective fact. Playing around introduces an element that’s more subjective. It could mean experimenting, seeing what you can do with something. It could also mean picking something up frivolously, with no intention of ever mastering it.

If I’m generous – some would say rational – I’ll assume that my friend wasn’t shooting from below the hip to belittle my latest musical fad. Sadly as a Scorpio, I’m not rational and I will always assume you are trying to take me down, however subtly or innocently you appear to do it.

Joking aside, the point is that as soon as our language leaves our lips, our pen, our fingers or thumbs, it belongs to our audience or our interlocutor as much as it does to us. The impact it makes on them can be instantaneous, powerful and irreversible – or at least very difficult to take back, should that prove necessary.

Clean language

Clean Language can help us move past misunderstandings like this. It involves using a person's own words to direct their attention to some aspect of their experience. It was developed by David Grove who found that it is useful to focus attention on the metaphors people use naturally to describe that experience. Clean Language enables people to discover and develop their own symbols and metaphors, without contaminating these with any judgments, assumptions or opinions introduced by an external influence, such as a conversation partner. 

Clean questions are used in many different fields, including coaching, therapy, business, organisational change, health, education and as a research interview technique.

Using Clean Language questions, I could find out from my friend what he meant when he asked me what new instrument I’m ‘playing around with at the moment’. I may find out that the ‘around’ came from trying to take me down, or from a place of recognising that I play multiple instruments at one time, or from somewhere completely different. 

What Clean Language will allow me to do is find out about my friend’s experience without clouding it with mine. I can then explain my experience to him, and come to agreement on how each of us experienced the moment. Yes, it may seem like a long winded way of going about things. But when it comes to working with others, we need to recognise when we’re making assumptions and work with each other meaningfully to create the space to understand differences and work together for change.

Takeaways

So here’s some ideas I am left with after mulling all of this over.

First, in the words of Erikah Badu, “keep in mind that I’m an artist, and I’m sensitive about my shit!”.
Remember that people do not use words in the same way as you, even if you’re ostensibly speaking the same language. Be curious and find out what is going on for the other person, in their own words.
Second, if our aim is to include, we need to be aware that conversations in English will exclude many voices point blank, while introducing an unlevel playing field for those who remain. Remember that even people who are comfortable in English - native speakers included - might not be using the same words in the same way as you. 

Translators and interpreters can help, but those guys are expensive. More importantly they slow down the pace of discussion. In our world of rolling news and lightening quick surges of opinion on social media, that means you lose a lot of your audience from the jump. The pace that artificial intelligence is developing in translation and even real-time audio translation is remarkable, but comes with its own limitations and dangers.

Finally, if we want to talk constructively with anyone at all, but especially if we know we’re coming from different standpoints, we need to establish a shared linguistic framework. We need to be sure that we agree about concepts, that we’re not antagonising one another every time we open our mouth. Rather than thoughtlessly shutting down conversation, let's open our minds and our hearts to other points of view. Share your ideas on how to do that on our Twitter
 
If any of this has resonated with you, then you know that finding ways to talk effectively through the cacophony of today’s politics is absolutely vital if we’re going collectively solve the multiple crises that are threatening humanity and our planet today.

Flare is working to do just that, but our work costs money. If you are able to give a little to help us fight the good fight, please donate here; every little helps.
 
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 * For the long read, check out the full study in Science Mag, for language geeks it’s truly fascinating.  
 
 Resources
• From Contempt To Curiosity, by Caitlin Walker
• So ... You want to be #DramaFree, by Caitlin Walker & Marian Way
• Metaphors in Mind, by Penny Tompkins and James Lawley
• Clean Approaches for Coaches, Marian Way


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